User blog comment:Monkey.D.Me/OP LACKS ROMANCE/@comment-3213092-20120622215147/@comment-1595565-20120622222959

Neither of them. In order to be a pedophile CHILDREN have to be involved. Hence the prefix "ped", also found in other child-related words such as "pediatrics". Since both of them are over the magical age of 18, at this point it's just an older woman falling for a younger man.