User blog comment:Xilinoc/Ch. 847 - Fantastic Beasts and Marital Woes/@comment-25270312-20161130012323

I still think there's a chance that while Big Mom is genuinely upset about the ruined alliance, she still loves and cares for Lola, but she puts on a show to discourage her other kids from running away and so that she looks tough. This goes along with the theory that what Jinbe had to "lose" for defecting was his reputation, rather than a limb or the life of someone close to him. I think that while Big Mom is not a Great Person, she also is not as Evil as she seems. I also think it would be hilarious if Lola sent in a long distance den-den mushi call form Water 7 to tell her mama about a new husband and totally blow Big Mom's cover as scary and wholly unforgiving. Like again, she's definitely not a Great Person because her crew is willing to kill innocents and resort to violent means, but she does highly value her family, and I still wanna believe she cares for Lola and wants her to do well.